Last night Frank and I went out for a night walk. During the course of that walk, I realized that I need to make some lists. I am going to start with a list of requirements for the next town that I want to live in, a list of things I want to buy that are non-essentials, and a list of jobs that I might want to work in. The last list was kind of a last minute thought.
I also need to figure out what to do on my days off. A day off is something to be cherished, to do something that I couldn’t do because I have that damn thing called a job to go to… But here is the reality:
I wake up, and already Frank and I are planning what to for the day. Not only is it our only day off together, but it is also our day to go out and treat ourselves to a meal. We alternate in accordance to who got paid that week. Now here is the problem that I have been noticing… We seem to have this propensity to stay out for about 6 – 8 hours. That is way too much for me. I would prefer 3 – 4. But the problem is that when we first start out of the house and head towards our fun plans, I don’t even think about time. I am just so damn glad to not be at work, to spend the day with Frank, to see something different, to eat a meal that we don’t have to make or clean up afterwards. So for the first 3 hours I am happy. The next 2 I am chill. The last hour I am exhausted and oftentimes grumpy. It happens every Saturday.
I don’t know why I don’t change. I think it partially because I know Frank spends more time alone in the house than I do. In all honesty, I would love to spend more time in the house. I damn well paid enough for it. I also am never home.
Take today, for example. I woke up at 8:15, left the house by 9, went to a 9:30 yoga class, showered at the studio after class, got to work and had enough time to eat and then clocked in at 11:45, worked until 8:15, and made it home by 8:45. I pretty much spent 12 hours away from my house… And unfortunately, on the days that I combine yoga with work, that is a typical day.
And that gets to me after awhile.
There are alot of times that I just want to sit in my jammies and stay home. I have orchids to tend to, my day gecko that is neglected upstairs in a guest bedroom, usually a basket or two of laundry… I never get any housework done. How can I? On our one day off together, we go out pretty much all day, and I get home so exhausted that housework is the last thing I want to do. And my other day off is a mixed bag; anything could happen.
I finally tidied up my side of the walk in closet last night. I have been meaning to do that for weeks. There is alot of stuff that I want to do around the house; a few weeks ago, I emptied out three junk drawers; I have only managed to organize one.
I am just going to do my best to make sure that we keep our outings to 3 – 4 hours… At least until I feel better. These 12 hour days are killer.